By Donna Dunning

In my personality type based communication workshops I sometimes have participants complete this thought –“To communicate most effectively with me please…” This exercise helps participants express their communication style and preferences.

I can’t take credit for this exercise. It is modified from one created by Jean Kummerow.

Here is a photo of a response from an individual who has INTJ preferences.

People preferring INTJ tend to be goal-oriented, global thinkers who are looking to solve problems and improve systems. As this individual says, if you want their attention, make sure you set up a time to communicate and explain why the conversation is relevant to them.

For more tips on effective communication, see my newly revised booklet, Introduction to Myers-Briggs® Type and Communication – Second Edition.

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